So a person calls you their best friend, but then they rarely ever have contact with you. They don't take two seconds to text and ask how a medical procedure went. You try to stay in contact but it doesn't work so well one-sided. They don't tell you anything that is going on in their life because "they don't want to stress you out". Wait, what? You listen to people complain for 40 hours a week, you might as well hear about something from someone you care about, right?
You fly across the country to take care of them after a medical procedure. They take a train to visit you and spend the entire time on their phone talking to someone else. I don't get it.
I guess the only answer is that you are on two different pages and each person views the relationship differently. So do you scrap it? Or just pretend? Or just ignore it? I don't know.
I just don't get it.
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